Responding In Faith

Our journey through life, adoption, home schooling and responding in faith

Spirit Night

Chick-fil-a Spirit Night

We had a great turn out for our Chick-fil-a Spirit Night!!  Thanks so much Amy Wolfe for setting this up for us!!  It was fun seeing everyone, getting refills, and cleaning….yes, even cleaning was fun that night.  We want to thank everyone who showed up for this fun event.  Sorry I didn’t get any more pictures…I was too busy getting refills for Johnny!!  We aren’t sure yet how much we brought in…still waiting to find out!  We will keep you posted! 

For anyone interested in doing the Chick-fil-a Spirit Night, it is a lot of fun and easy to do.  Contact your local Chick-fil-a and they will give you everything you need to get started.  You get to keep 20% of the sales from those who bring in coupons! 

Our Spirit Night Crowd

Our Spirit Night Crowd!!

Anthony's best friend...Sammy

 Anthony’s best friend….Sammy!

Mr. Miller

 Mr. Miller

Margaret Stout

Margaret Stout

June 20, 2007 Posted by Sonya | Adoption Links, adoption fundraiser | | No Comments

The Gift

Weekly people approach me wondering if we have heard any news on our precious boys.  With a heavy heart I always have the same answer, “Not yet.  We are still waiting on paper work.”  This use to lay heavy on my heart, but then I started giving it back to the Lord.  I know that this is not my time or Russell’s time, but it will be in God’s time that our boys come home.  John 14:27 says, “Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.  I do not give to you as the world gives.  Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.”  God has given me a gift.  It is a gift of peace.

God does not want me to be consumed with time lines, delays or worry.  He wants me to be filled with His peace.  If I become consumed with the other, my heart will be heavy and I will not be able to hear His calling on my life.  “‘Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet My unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor My covenant of peace be removed,’ says the Lord, who has compassion on you,” (Isaiah 54:10).  Is that not beautiful?  God has an unfailing love for me!  UNFAILING!  His love will never fail.  And that gift of peace will not be removed.  Why?  Because my God has compassion for me!  God not only delights in me, but He also has compassion for me!  He seeks me out.  If I am heavy with burdens, doubts and worries, I can not have that experience with God. 

I have prayed that our boys would have a sense of peace about them; that somehow they would know that we are trying to bring them home.  Isaiah 54 goes on to say, “All your sons will be taught by the Lord, and great will be your children’s peace,” (verse 13).  From so many families whom have adopted from ACFI, I have heard how their children have such a deep faith.  I know that our boys are being taught by the Lord.  I sense that they are filled with an inner peace.  God is so good!

I encourage you today to not be heavy hearted, but to find peace in God.  “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest,” (Matthew 11:28).  The Lord does not want to see us in this state of mind.  He wants to give you the gift of peace.  Impossible, you say.  “Everything is possible for him who believes,” (Mark 9:23). 

So today, as I do daily, I lift my boys up to my Heavenly Father and I ask Him to watch over my boys.  I ask that He provides for their needs and fill their hearts with a sense of peace.  I pray, too, that you may be given this special gift…..God’s Peace!

Blessings to your day, My Friends!

June 18, 2007 Posted by Sonya | Adoption Links, Walking in Faith | | No Comments

Happy Birthday Samuel

Today is Samuel’s 12th birthday.  We were really hoping that we could have contact at this point so that we could wish him a happy birthday.  He has been in our thoughts and on our hearts all day.  We will look forward to the next birthday when we can actually have him face to face with us and not just in our hearts and minds!

The process has been so slow.  Sometimes the waiting  just seems too long and hard.  Its funny how much they become a part of your life when they are not even physically here.  When I go out with the kids to go shopping or something, I am always counting to make sure everyone is present.  Its funny because in my mind, I am counting them to.  I just feel like our whole family is not present and together.  Hannah had made that same comment to me.

I’m not sure how big God wants our family to be or if there will be more after this.  We have left this option open so that we can be faithful servants to our Lord.  Russ and I always try to stay open minded with our growing family and the possiblity for it to continue to grow.  When an opportunity opens up, we pray to God and ask Him to close the doors if it is not meant to be.  God has been faithful to do that for us.  Sometimes that is a hard thing….just letting go and allowing God to move in our lives.  But it is so very important.  God wants us to know that He is all we need.  If we ask Him, He will give us our portion for the day.

Please say a special prayer for our boys today!  Keep them close to your heart!

 Happy Birthday, Samuel!  We love you!

June 16, 2007 Posted by Sonya | Adoption Links, Large Families, Walking in Faith | | No Comments

Sing O Daughters of Zion

This morning I was reading my BiblePromise for the day and this verse from Zephaniah came up:

Sing, O Daughter of Zion; shout aloud, O Israel! Be glad and rejoice with all your heart, O Daughter of Jerusalem! The LORD has taken away your punishment, He has turned back your enemy. The LORD, the King of Israel, is with you; never again will you fear any harm. On that day they will say to Jerusalem, ‘Do not fear, O Zion; do not let your hands hang limp. The LORD your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with his love, He will rejoice over you with singing.’ Zephaniah 3:14-17

What a beautiful thought!  I do not need to fear for the Lord my God is with me!  I have a dear friend who since the birth of her little girl some eighteen months ago, has become consumed with fear.  Her fear is literally controlling her life.  Every ache and pain becomes a major illness in her mind.  She is consumed with fear of death.  With much prayer, encouragement and Christian counseling, she is overcoming the spiritual warfare that has been going on inside of her.  In Isaiah 41 it says, “For I am the Lord, your God, who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you,” (41:13).  Isaiah 43:5 goes on to say, “Do not be afraid, for I am with you.”  God is so good to us.  His word is so full of encouragement and wisdom and direction for our lives. 

Zephaniah goes on to tell us that “He is mighty to save.”  God wants us to walk close with Him.  He wants our whole heart.  He wants us to be free.  Part of the freedom is succumbing to God.  Knowing that it is God who is in control.  But it doesn’t end their, my friends!  “The LORD your God is with you, He is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, He will quiet you with his love,” (Zephaniah 3:17).  God will take great delight in YOU!!  Is that not beautiful?  God will delight in us, the Creator of the heaven and the earth wants to delight in each of us!!  And while delighting in each of us, if we choose to listen to His quiet whispers, He will quiet our inner most being with His love!  That love that is so hard for us to even grasp!  The love that is wide and long and high and deep!  BUT it doesn’t end there!!!  God will “rejoice over you with singing” (verse 17).  I can not even imagine!  My God rejoicing over me with singing!  My heart is over flowing with so much joy.  My God both delights in me and will rejoice over me with singing!  Any fears or doubts that I have in my mind need to be released to Him.  God wants you and me to be free from any bondage!  He wants us to truly experience His love in our lives.  Fear prevents that.

I found this picture on the Internet that was painted specifically for these verses from Zephaniah.  I really connect with this picture.  It is such a beautiful image of God’s word!
Sing, O Daughter of Zion; shout aloud, O Israel! Be glad and rejoice with all your heart, O Daughter of Jerusalem! The LORD has taken away your punishment, he has turned back your enemy. The LORD, the King of Israel, is with you; never again will you fear any harm. On that day they will say to Jerusalem, 'Do not fear, O Zion; do not let your hands hang limp. The LORD your God is with you, he is mighty to save. He will take great delight in you, he will quiet you with his love, he will rejoice over you with singing.' The dancer is dancing in paradise to the delight of Jesus and another saint.  I painted this in celebration of my grandmothers long life, much of it spent dancing to heaven’s music.   The painted scripture covers the entire back of the painting. Please note: 11 x 14 prints are no longer available for this painting. Thanks!

Zephaniah 3:14-17
Gwen Meharg
Watercolor-22 x 30 unframed HeArts Gallery

I hope that you will be able to Sing O daughters and sons of Zion!  For the Lord is so good! He wants to set each of us free so that we can truly experience Him!

June 13, 2007 Posted by Sonya | Walking in Faith | | 1 Comment

God’s Command

No new news on our adoption.  We are waiting patiently for the relinquishments as we know that it is not in our time but in God’s. 

Today I would like to share with you some scripture I read in my Bible this morning.  It is about God’s command to love one another.  Sometimes that is a hard concept to understand and to do, but it is a command from God.  This morning I was reading out of 2 John in the New Living Translation.  “And now I want to urge you, dear lady, that we should love one another.  This is not a new commandment, but one we had from the beginning.  Love means doing what God has commanded us, and He has commanded us to love one another, just as you heard from the beginning,” (2 John 1:5-6). 

I recently had a conversation with someone about the recent abduction that happened at Target.  This person was telling me all the details of the incident and the history of the young man who was responsible for the crime and murder of the young lady.  The conversation went something like this:  “It was reported that this young man had grown up in the foster care system and that he had been in and out of homes.  A family felt sorry for him and adopted him.  He did things that were wrong and had him removed from their home.  Then someone else felt sorry for him and took him in and the same thing happened.  This is why we can’t support your adoption because you don’t know what these boys have been through.” 

I was a little bit floored by this conversation.  If everything that they said was true, I am very sad for this young man.  The system did fail him.  Yes, he is responsible for his actions and I do not know his whole story, but the system failed him.  I went on to explain that God had given us clear direction and calling for this adoption.  The response was, “Well, those families thought they had clear direction, too!”

I take you back again to the scripture.  I would like to give you the commentary that is written in my Bible:  “We can show love in many ways: by avoiding prejudice and discrimaination, by accepting people, by listening, helping, giving, serving, and refusing to judge.  Knowing God’s command is not enough.  We must put it into practice, ‘doing what God has commanded us,’” (Life Application Study Bible, Tyndale).

I love that!  It tells us that knowing is not enough, but we must put what we know into action!  We have to be able to apply God’s word in our life, not just read about it!  God has given us clear direction on this adoption and has provided just as He said He would.  We are following God’s commandment to love through this adoption.  Genesis 22:18 states, “In your offspring shall all the nations of the earth be blessed, because you have obeyed my voice.”  God wants to bless us and to allow those blessings to overflow onto others.  We have obeyed God’s voice and He is blessing us in so many ways.

I encourage you today to put love into action.  Your neighbor is anyone around you.  Let God’s light shine through you and overflow from your heart so that others may see the Lord in you.  Reading the Word is not enough!  Let the Word live in you and through you.  The Bible is not just a list of rules and regulations.  It is a life style that can be reflected in your life through love.  Look around you today and see how you can live your life for God!

June 12, 2007 Posted by Sonya | Adoption Links, Walking in Faith | | No Comments

Songs of Praise

“‘Surely God is my salvation; I will trust and not be afraidl  The Lord, the Lord, is my strength and my song; He has become my salvation.’  With joy you will draw water from the wells of salvation.  In that day you will say: ‘Give thanks to the Lord, call on His name; make known among the nations what He has done, and proclaim that His name is exalted.  Sing to the Lord, for He has done glorious things; let this be known to all the world.  Shout aloud and sing for joy, people of Zion, for great is the Holy One of Israel among you,’” (Isaiah 12:2-6).

I must share with and make known to all the nations how great my God is!!  I must proclaim that His name is to be exalted!!  As you have read our story, I have said over and over again how important it is to put our trust in Him!  I have also told you that it is so important to quiet our inner spirit so that we can listen for and hear God’s voice.  God asked our family to trust in Him with this entire adoption process.  He told us not to worry about the money, that He would provide.  Early on we saw this happen as we raised an amazing $6500 in less then a month’s time.  Then over the past months we have seen money come from the most unexpected places!  God has kept us in pure amazement at the works of His hands!

Now I must share with you another amazing story!  Several months ago a friend of ours had told us about a woman who loved to help people with their adoptions.  This woman would just give from her heart because she believed in adoption so deeply.  We waited and waited to find out more information on this amazing woman.  Could it possibly be true?  Would she want to even talk to us?  Well, about 2 weeks ago, my friend called me with this woman’s name (Maire) and phone number.  She told me that Marie was very hard to get in touch with, but to be persistent, leave messages and keep trying.  She also told me that they had thought she had only helped with eastern European adoptions and did not know if she would help with a liberian adoption but we  should go ahead and try.

I did not feel led to call Marie right away.  Actually, I hadn’t even written down her phone number.  It was still on our answering machine.  My friend, Jennifer called me every couple of days asking me if I had called yet.  She was so excited about this and had been praying about our future conversation.  I kept coming up with excuses, but in all actuallity I did not feel led to call.

Yesterday, May 31, I was frantically cleaning house, getting kids ready for dentists appointments and trying to get ready for our next fundraiser that evening.  I felt like there was just not enough time to get it all done.  In the middle of all my chaos, God told me it was time.  I felt as if someone else was controlling my actions.  I walked over to the telephone with pen and paper in hand.  Went through my saved messages to find the one from Jennifer with the telephone number and wrote it down.  The kids were watching a movie, so I took the phone out to the front porch to give Marie a call.  I was told not to expect to speak to her, but some how I knew I would get a hold of her because this call was on God’s time and not mine.

The phone rang twice and someone answered.  “Hello.  Is Marie there?”  “This is Marie.”  And so the conversation began.  I told her who I was and gave her the names of the two men that had referred her to us.  I told her that we were in the process of adopting three brothers from Liberia and was wondering if she would be interested in hearing our adoption story.  Let me just say that I am so amazed by the hand of God!  But yet I shouldn’t be.  When God makes a promise, He keeps it!

Marie was so delighted to hear our story.  “Why yes I want to hear your adoption story!  Children are such a huge blessing from God!  I absolutely love children.  Now tell me about your adoption!”  I wasn’t expecting that kind of response.  She told me that if we lost our connection to make sure I called her right back.  She told me she was out in the middle of no where wandering around in Georgia, but she wanted to hear our story.  It was almost as if she was expecting our call.

I told Marie about our Liberian sons,  I gave her their names and ages.  I told her about our family and our other adoption stories.  She was in amazement and asked God to bless us for having so many children!  She said that she loved children.  Her and her husband had one biological child and one adopted child from Russia.  Then Marie asked me what we needed to bring our boys home.

I explained to her that we needed approxiately $3000 for the remainder of the legal fees and we were guessing approximately $8000 for travel expenses.  When you  read the rest of this, I want you to know and believe that God is so faithful!  I want you to know that whatever in your life that you may be going through, that I encourage you to keep believing because if we walk in faith and trust in our heavenly Father, that He will bless you in more ways then you could ever imagine! 

What happened next put me on my knees thanking my Heavenly Father for loving my Liberian boys so much!!  As I type this I continue to have tears of joy streaming from my eyes.  As I type this I am still in utter amazement of my Father’s love.  Marie told me that she could help us out in two ways.  First, Marie and her husband travel a lot by airplane and rack up on air miles.  They save them to help families who are adopting bring their children home.  “Your airline tickets are covered!  You just need to give me 30 days notice so that I can make the arrangements for the tickets.”  The entire expense of the airline tickets is gone!  That was our next major expense!  My God is so GREAT! 

But that was not all!  She asked me again what the remainder of the legal fees were.  “You don’t need to worry about that.  I will have the $3000 to you.  But I need to ask you a favor.”  She needed to ask me a favor?!  “Of course!  Anything!”  This is what she told me and it is very important that you know:

“My Daddy went to sleep on Saturday night and on Sunday morning he woke up in Heaven.  I have no doubt in my mind that he is there.  My daddy loved children.  He loved his grandchildren.  He love all children.  I want to bring your boys home in honor of my Daddy.  His name is John A. “Jack” Gordon.  They are to come home in his honor.”  Trying not to cry hysterically I told her that we would be both honored and blessed to do this in Jack Gordon’s name!

In Matthew 9, Jesus is approached by two blind men.  They called to Jesus asking Jesus to have mercy on them.  The blind men had followed Jesus “and he asked them, ‘Do you believe that I am able to do this?’ ‘Yes, Lord, ‘ they replied.  Then He touched their eyes and said, ‘According yo your faith will it be done to you’; and their sight was restored,” (Matthew 9:28-29).  God told us that He would provide the funding for this adoption.  Russell and I had faith in God and trusted in Him.  Yesterday He asked me if I believed that He was able to do this.  “Yes, Lord,” was my answer.  The timing was His timing not mine.  He told me when I was supposed to proceed.  He had prepared Marie’s heart before I even called.

Through out the Bible Jesus spoke of the mustard seed.  In Matthew 17:20, Jesus said, “I tell you the truth, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there’ and it will move.  Nothing will be impossible for you.”  God took that mountain that looked so huge and He moved it!  He took our faith and made it grow!  I can not emphasize enough how important it is to have faith in our Father!  Remember, we may not see where God is taking us, but once we get there, the journey is so amazing.  It is not by our hands that this was done.  All the honor and glory go to our Heavenly Father.  Thank you God!  Thank you for your amazing love!  Thank you for loving me, someone so small and unworthy.  Thank you for entrusting Russell and me with our beautiful blessings.

“Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth.  Worship the Lord with gladness; come before Him with joyful songs.  Know that the Lord is God.  It is He who made us, and we are His; we are His people, the sheep of His pasture.  Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise; give thanks to Him and praise His name.  For the Lord is good and His love endures forever; His faithfulness continues through all generations,” (Psalm 100).

Please let this be an encouragement for you who are walking in faith allowing the Lord to lead your way!  “Wait for the Lord and keep His way,” (Psalm 37:34).  “Be strong and courageous.  Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherver you go,” (Joshua 1:9).

Please continue to pray for our boys.  Pray that the relinquishments happen soon.  Maybe they could be home by Christmas, but it is all in the Lord’s timing.  Pray that the Lord will guide the staff at the orphanage in finding the birth parents!

God Bless all of you!

June 1, 2007 Posted by Sonya | Adoption Links, Walking in Faith | | 1 Comment